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Reflections May 2014

Life Now

A Treasure Chest of Memories

By Dusty Reed

A few tufts of snow brought a pang of envy as I remembered the joys of tromping through the woods, feeling invigorated, playing snow games: building forts, plopping out across the cold blanket to make snow angels, running around a circle to make tracks for "Fox and Geese," and ice skating on outdoor ponds.

"Contentment is happy memories of things past, enjoyment of things present, and hope of good to come." - Harold E. Kohn

As I leaned with my elbows resting on the guardrails, I gazed at the scene on the other side of the massive plate glass window. I was oblivious to any other activity around me. I was home again, watching nature in all its activity at a wildlife refuge along the Missouri River, near the area where I spent my childhood years.

The area that captured my interest was off limits to visitors. Birds of several varieties were dancing from tree to tree and to the ground for a few quick bites of food. It is provided for them through the bleak winter months when natural food is scarce. A back-up area of the river provided a peaceful place for them to splash around in the icy waters and find refreshment. They would then flutter back into the near-barren thicket.

A few tufts of snow brought a pang of envy as I remembered the joys of tromping through the woods, feeling invigorated, playing snow games: building forts, plopping out across the cold blanket to make snow angels, running around a circle to make tracks for "Fox and Geese," and ice skating on outdoor ponds. It was an invigorating feeling, remembering the laughing and tumbling into the drifts. Yes, the sparkles of light refracting from the snow reminded me of laughter. It brought a smile as I looked out the window and remembered. It was a healthy reminder.

I can now visualize a special venture through the falling snow, the quietness, a sense of the fanciful and the beauty surrounding and within.

Winters in Iowa are a totally different dimension than the winters my son experienced on the desert in southern California. In his younger years, he developed his own games to play in the sand and tumbleweeds rather than in snow and underbrush.

We now live in the Midwest and our son has had occasion to visit the wildlife refuge, as well as many other natural attractions. He has fond memories of desert life in California, where he lived the first eight years of his life. He has also now been able to enjoy games in those tufts of snow.

Like a wild bird, I could not pen him into what I considered the ideal activities of childhood. He had to be free to develop what was right for him. Someday, he will be able to take his child to look out across a wildlife refuge or some other peaceful reminiscent spot. I pray that we have offered precious pebbles on the beach of life as childhood memories that he can share with his children and yet let them be free.

Each person has special sweet memories, a treasure chest full of jewels. I have recently been sorting photographs and creating albums in specific categories  –  my husband's and my childhoods, our son's childhood, travels we have taken, fun shots of  extended family and friends. These have brought with them that treasure chest of bountiful, beautiful memories –  many including special places where we have traveled.

It is important to leave jewels for grandchildren. One way this can be accomplished is by taking them on unique little trips. A simple place to enjoy nature is by taking a walk in a secluded area. It might be just a walk to identify birds, butterflies or caterpillars. It might be a special drive to the country –  or to the city. There are many places where wildlife can be observed in natural habitats such as at wildlife refuges or nature preserves. Wildlife can also be observed at zoos, arboretums, bird sanctuaries, aquariums, museums, and many other places. Exposing children to the beauty and awesomeness of nature can be a worthwhile experience for both the child and the adult.

Sometimes less favorable memories may pop into the scene. A friend says she journals and uses the computer to record all kinds of childhood memories to bring up emotions so she can "deal with them.” This, then, allows her to put them in perspective as she reminisces. She adds that pleasant, peaceful surroundings provide an optimistic attitude for achievements and memories.

Each era is unique. Acknowledging our own memories is important. I am grateful for all the good memories I have received. By taking special quiet time to revive these memories, I carry healthy thoughts throughout my day. This also gives a reminder to share some past experiences with children and grandchildren.

 

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